urgh!

need to vent. so mutual friends of hkgroom and i got engaged over christmas and we now find out that they're going to have their wedding 'sometime in september'. the friend chose september because of family reasons and when i asked why they don't just do it the year after, she simply said 'i don't want a long engagement'- ok fair enough, but there's nothing i can say to that!

the exact date hasn't been announced yet (although i do believe they have picked their venue and they've probably put down a deposit). i don't know if this is truly fair, but i'm a little upset that they're having their wedding right before ours even though we announced when ours would be and sent out our save the dates ages and ages ago. i feel a little like our thunder has been stolen! obviously, if their wedding is in early september, it would make me feel better as there is more time in between ours. but if the wedding is a week before ours or something similar, i think i may throw a fit!

i can't believe i actually told them some of our wedding details wayy wayy wayy back before they got engaged! now i'm super worried that they'll steal our ideas, and because their wedding will be before ours, people will think we stole their ideas! i seriously seriously hope i'm just over-thinking things and that this wouldn't happen at all...